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Pascal Sijen 
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 Topic: Forbes | Careers And Marriage
Posted: 19 Jan 2009 at 5:04pm |
Hello All:This is my first post here and I wasn't sure if this was the correct area to post... So,
today I ran across two articles, a point and a counterpoint, in the opinion
section on the Forbes website. I found both articles to be written in
a manner which is bound to spur discussions and possibly
controversy. To say these two writers are a little cynical may be an
understatement, but I would be interested in hearing what others have
to say about the issues raised in these articles.
http://www.forbes.com/2006/08/23/Marriage-Careers-Divorce_cx_mn_land.htmlCheers! 
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desert dweller
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Posted: 19 Jan 2009 at 8:46pm |
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I think both the articles are a little extreme. As with any relationship, there's a happy medium in there somewhere and it's up to each couple to decide that point for themselves. I think we've done that at home by both working, raising the kids together-including school drop off, errands, etc., chores around the house, cooking and other things that make a household and a family run smoothly. I think the most successful relationships are those where two people's strengths and weaknesses compliment one another to create one incredible union.
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bsands68
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Posted: 22 Jan 2009 at 9:40pm |
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Ok, I was ready to blast Michael's article after reading the title. However, I read the whole thing, twice. I think he, sort of, vindicates himself by pointing out none of these things are issues if you marry the right person and are willing to work on your marriage. At least that is what I am choosing to believe! Yes, of course, a two career family has challenges, but having given up a career to stay home, let me just say, we have our challenges too. Do I worry about that "co-worker?" Of course, especially if I have not showered in a couple of days! But I trust my husband. I married the right partner. And that is what Elizabeth is saying. Marry the right person, committ to your marriage and you should be able to weather all kinds of storms. Because whether you are a "career" girl or not, your marriage is going to have challenges and if a guy can't handle the fact that you do or someday will make more money than him, Honey, he doesn't deserve you! So Mike, tell your buddies to get a grip and just because she is hot and good in bed, does not make her the right one!
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dashwoodm
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Posted: 25 Jan 2009 at 8:37pm |
Michael is missing one very important matter on this subject. For most couples, it is a luxury to have a parent staying at home. Economics, especially now, drives and keeps career women, and men in the workforce, forcing marriages to adapt to a healthy balance of power, responsibility and partnership. 50/50 is key to a really good relationship, however that looks for the couple.
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desert dweller
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Posted: 30 Jan 2009 at 7:42pm |
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That is a very good point dashwoodm. One thing that's really stuck in my mind about those articles is "the right person". I feel very strongly that if you are partnered with the right person, you can work through these or other challenges together. Even the most simple of problems can become an issue if your parent does not respect you for who you are. And yes, having been a stay-at-home mom....well, that job was the hardest I've had yet with it's own set of challenges and frustrations to work through!
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